So, you like that guy? Now wondering how to make him fall in love with you online? Well, in this modern day, anything can be done online. Even birds and bees. We made a list of tips from relationship experts that will teach you how to make a man fall for you online.
Banking, working, schooling, shopping and more, almost anything that can be done in person, can be done online. One aspect of life that technology has impacted is our romantic relationships. Nowadays, millions of dating websites allow people all over the world to find someone and fall in love. However, making someone fall in love with you in person, is much different than making someone fall in love with you online.
How to make him fall in love with you online?
Here are some tips:
Ask Him Questions About Him
A relationship goes both ways and even though you might not be able to see each other, you have to remember that he is a real person such as yourself. Like you, he has dreams, hobbies, a job, a family, a past, and more.
Just like in a face to face conversation, guys will get turned away if you make everything about you and nothing about him. Yes, at your first interaction you will have to introduce yourself to him. You can share your characteristics and qualities but try to keep the conversation equal. Give a short introduction about yourself, allow him to talk about himself, and repeat. Feel free to ask him questions about himself as this will show that you are interested in him. So, if he asks you questions about yourself, you will know that he’s interested in you too.
However, be careful with just how personal you get. Save the hard-hitting questions for a few conversations into the relationship and start with the lighter question for the first few chats. Also, when you are being asked a question by him, don’t go into too much detail. Just answer it short, simple and then move on. Perhaps you can even ask the same question towards him.
Watch Your Words
The biggest thing that differentiates online dating from physical dating is the visual aspect. Through online dating, you can’t rely on any form of body position or vocal tone to tell what mood the other person is in. Therefore, you must make your statements clear with the correct choice of words. You don’t want your jokes to be received as insults!
Like in a face to face relationship with anyone, it’s all about the vibes. Studies show that managers are more likely to choose candidates for a job if they mention their positive qualities in an interview first, rather than candidates who list their negative qualities first. This rule applies to make him fall in love with you online too. Try not to be a downer. You can do this by keeping the conversation light and upbeat. Try to talk about your favorite things rather than your pet peeves.
Ask questions about what his dreams are rather than what he regrets. If something comes up that triggers you or him negatively, then switch topics and talk about something more uplifting.
Share! Send him photos of your life
Share photos of your daily things with witty comments. It can be a bagel that reminds you of Darth Vader or the strange color of the sky. It can be your new hairstyle you’re not sure about. It can be a random meme that made you laugh or the photo of your feet in front of the TV if you’re in the chill mode.
Sharing is caring. Sending photos of little, daily things goes a long way towards building intimacy. Soon, he’ll start sharing too.
Tips on How to make him fall in love with you online
Try disappearing for a bit
Being available nonstop kills the mystery aura of flirting and prevents the imagination from doing what it does best. Go offline for a day or two, don’t post on social media, and don’t text him. Nothing bad will happen. You’ll just rekindle the flame in your phones. Allow him to miss you and let him be reminded of how much he actually enjoys texting with you.
Ask him for help about some little thing
Feel free to be a damsel in distress. You have car problems? Your tap is running? Your friend has a situation and needs your advice, but you’re not sure about what to do. Ask him for advice and let him be the macho man he wants to be.
Tease him whenever opportunity arises
When we say tease, you should do it in a cute, flirty way. Make sure you don’t go overboard. Just keep it fun. For instance, if you don’t like his favorite pop singer, use it. 🙂
Say his name!
We could type for months without using the name of the person we’re talking to. Make sure that doesn’t happen. Men love to be called by their name. It gives a sense that someone is thinking of all of them. Most men find it sexy.
Don’t talk about other guys!
Men don’t really want to hear about your old boyfriends, your crushes, or guys who are running around you. You want him to fall in love with you, not consider you a booty call. Focus on the two of you.
Leave him wanting more
Don’t go all in, all the time. Don’t wait until there are no more words to type. When the conversation is at its peak, maybe it’s a good time to call it a day. That will leave him wanting more, remembering your conversations with a smile, and fantasizing about you more and more.
There you go. A guide on how to make him fall in love with you online. Follow these tips and one day, your online romance will move from virtual to physical!